We’d gone to church that morning in Lawrence, our last Sunday at the church we’d just begun to love. Then we headed to lunch.
When we got out of the car at the restaurant, we were surprised at how cool it had gotten. We felt a little underdressed in our skirts and shorts, but we figured we’d sweat soon enough moving the boxes around.
After eating lunch and unloading the cars at our new house, we took a break in our unfurnished living room. And then Mark’s phone rang.
It was his brother, who lives 20 minutes away, calling about the tornado.
What tornado, we asked.
Mark could hear sirens in the background of his brother’s call, but it was quiet in our new neighborhood. After they hung up, we decided to see what we could find out. As one of our friends went out to the car to listen to the radio for news, Mark and I just looked at each other. And then around the house. And back at each other.
We had just bought a house without a basement. With big windows in every room. In Missouri.
We didn’t even know where the crawl space was yet. And honestly, I didn’t even know what a crawl space was!
After we found a news report on the radio, we learned that we were under a tornado warning. That’s the bad one – although that day, I wasn’t quite sure which is worse, the watch or the warning.
One of our friends, Julia, called her parents, who lived about 5 minutes away, to make sure they were in their basement. They assured her that they were fine and mentioned that we could all come over if we wanted.
After what in retrospect seems like a lot of pointless debate, we climbed into our three cars and followed Julia to her parents’ house.
Our caravan drove at a reasonable speed, following all traffic rules and noticing that yeah, maybe the sky did look a little green.
We pulled into Julia’s parents’ driveway, parked and walked up to the door. Her dad, Alan, welcomed us, and we followed him into the living room, where we gathered around the TV. With one eye on the meteorologist on screen, we asked Alan if he thought we should go to the basement.
He said, “We’ll know when it’s time.”
Poof! At that moment, the power went out. Our hearts dropped. And we headed to the stairs.
Single file, we jogged down the steep stairs, and Alan directed us to the most inner room of the basement. Before we were all crammed into that room, though . . .
Bam! The storm hit the house. My friend Stacy screamed. We all crouched to the floor.
And then it was quiet.
We stood up and looked at each other. And then we looked out into the main room of the basement. And saw a tree, sticking through the wall.
Holding hands, hugging arms, we filed back up the stairs and walked out the garage to see the damage.
Stepping outside, we surveyed the street. And that’s when I got a little teary-eyed. A little shaky. Branches and debris were everywhere. We could barely see our cars; they were covered in tree litter.
And a huge old tree across the street had been completely uprooted and tossed across the neighbors’ yard.
It was untouched. We found a few pieces of insulation in the yard (not sure where they came from), but our neighborhood had not been hit. Over the next few weeks, I would realize that the exact path we took to Julia’s parents’ house was the same one the tornado took, touching down one street over from the house we went to for safe shelter.
We spent the next couple of hours trying to drive to Julia’s house and, after being turned away by the police trying to direct traffic around the vast damage, trying to get back to her parents’ house. We finally gave up trying to drive in, parked the car and walked back into the neighborhood. Then we concentrated on calling our friends and family to assure them we were fine and to make sure they were, too.
Starting as an F1 and ending as an F4, our storm was part of a series of tornadoes that swept much of the country that May. We were so blessed to be kept safe. Many, many others were not so lucky. According to Wikipedia (yes, I know, shut up), a total of 86 tornadoes touched down in Kansas, Missouri, Arkansas and Tennessee, making May 4, 2003 one of the largest single-day outbreaks in history. Thirty-eight people were killed, and nearly 400 were injured by the tornadoes. Here’s one video, although you can find dozens more.
And that is why our next house will have a basement.
What’s the scariest storm you’ve survived?
i think in that part of the country, a basement should trump a lot of other things on a house wish list.
the only tornado i’ve ever experienced was in south africa years ago. they “don’t” get tornadoes there, so it was a big deal… it ran right through the village we minister in, and ripped the tin shacks to pieces. the basotho people had no idea what hit them (literally) since there just aren’t tornadoes in africa…
tornadoes scare the bejeebies out of me. One of the things I hate most about TN.
We were in Hurricane Isabel in VA in 2003. It sucked a huge oak tree right out of the ground at my parents house. If it had fallen any other direction than the one it did, it would have crashed into our house or cars.
When I was young, my mom would want us all to head to the basement but my dad would be standing out by the road looking for tornadoes. The scariest time for me was when all six of us kids were standing by the road with dad and suddenly 2 tornadoes dropped out of the sky at the far end of the field across the road.
Dad grabbed me and all of us ran to the basement… mom was furious with him. We had wind damage, but the tornadoes turned and took out portions of our town [we lived six miles out of town on an acreage].
Let’s just say dad never argued with mom about heading to the basement after that. I live in a condo with no basement now, but I’m still more like my dad and tend to watch out the window.
Okay…this is too weird. This morning, I TOO was remembering that very same tornado filled day. I was sorting some photos and found the ones we took of the destruction our house received as a result of this storm. The biggest tree we had in our yard fell ON TOP of our house and ended up completely crossing our front porch and driveway. Thankfully, neither Chris nor I were home that day, but I remember thinking (as I was scrapbooking at sbkers dream) ‘Oh, what’s all the uproar about? The tornado won’t hit us!’. That is the LAST time I ever took a tornado warning and sirens for granted. Now I am terrified when the sirens go off.
wow… i didn’t know you were actually IN the tornado. i would’ve been crapping my pants!
the worst storm i was in was driving back from MN (just me and samantha) and there was a big snowstorm. i ended up doing 360s on I-35 beside a semi in front of other cars. when the car stopped spinning, i was facing the ditch and somehow all the cars had gotten around me. and i didn’t go in the ditch like dozens of other cars had. i love my guardian angels!
Wow! God is good. Chris and I once drove 10 minutes to his parents house to wait out a tornado. We lived in a mobile home that had a tornado shelter, but it was locked and the guy who had the key was out of town. We just took off for his parents while everyone else debated breaking down the door (which they did). But we were fine and our home was fine and no one was seriously injured during that tornado, so no worries!
WOW! That is scary and that photo of the wreckage made me gasp. Thank God you and your house were okay.
Wow…I have no storm stories like that! Scary stuff:O
Oh my goodness, how frightening! Glad to hear your house wasn’t damaged, and that you and your husband and friends were protected. Yeah, it sounds like a basement is a must in your neck of the woods.
I’ve never experienced anything scary like that. Whenever we have a super windy storm, I always pray that our eucalyptus tree doesn’t fall over. It just might reach the neighbors house.