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You know full well as I do the value of sisters’ affections:
There is nothing like it in this world.
Charlotte Bronte

We didn’t plan to have children six years apart. Someone recently told me that when kids are six years apart, their birth order personalities are the same as only children.

I don’t know if that’s true, but we definitely didn’t plan on having two only children. (Only two, sure. Two onlies, not so much.)

But after Annalyn’s birth was so traumatic, having another baby was far from our minds for a long time. Well, that’s putting it mildly. To put it bluntly, I was scared.

By the time I decided I was probably ready to have another baby, years had passed. And then, as many of you likely know, pregnancy doesn’t always happen the minute you want it to. As more time passed and we didn’t get pregnant, I began wondering if maybe we weren’t going to have another baby at all.

I got older. We needed counseling. (We got counseling). We questioned our desire for another child, wondering if we truly wanted a baby or if we simply didn’t want Annalyn to be an only child. Then we questioned whether that was motive enough.

More time passed. We got comfortable as a family of three.

I gave away a bin of baby clothes. I cried. I made peace.

We traded in our family-size car for a small sedan.

And then? We found out we were finally having another baby.

When I told Mark, he was surprised and more subdued than I expected. Then again, he’d just woken up so he was sleepy, too. When we told Annalyn, she was giddy. Out of her mind, over the moon excited. Giggling and screaming and dancing around the dinner table.

(Mark said, “That’s how I meant to react…” Heh.)

As the months went by, Annalyn remained excited. Crazy excited. Even when I was too tired to play…or cook dinner. Even when we rearranged her room, when we pulled out her old toys and books and clothes and said, “No, these are for the baby now!” and when the baby got as many Christmas presents as she did.

Even then, she Could! Not! Wait! to be a big sister.

Her face when she saw her baby sister for the first time? Priceless. Beautiful. (And, you can’t see it here, but mostly a Smile That Wouldn’t Stop.)

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Of course, in the spirit of not letting people just be happy, that’s when the comments started.

“Oh, just wait…”
“Sure, she loves her NOW…”
“They’ll be fighting before you know it!”

Um, thanks, people.

I’m aware that they may certainly have days, seasons, even years of squabbling and tattling and she stole my flat iron-ing. But for now? Right now? Nine months in?

MY TWO GIRLS ADORE EACH OTHER.

It’s to the point of ridiculous, really.

Adrienne can spend 25 minutes fussy and crying between the babysitter’s house and the elementary school, making my wait in the pickup line less than delightful. But the second Annalyn opens up that back door, that cranky baby stops crying and grins so big I swear her cheeks must hurt. Then they spend the three-minute drive home giggling and cooing at each other. Ridiculous. And ADORABLE.

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I mean, really.

They crack each other up all day long. And they’ve already started causing trouble together. Annalyn refuses to go to bed without One More Hug from her sister, and Adrienne often takes twice as long as necessary to eat her dinner because she’s too busy tracking her sister’s every move around the room.

A scary first birth, a slow second birth and all the hard things in between? Big lemons. But the bond already growing between my two amazing girls?

Beautiful lemonade I wouldn’t trade for anything.

How have you found lemonade with your family?

 

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